If you’re looking for a party that’s somewhat risqué, but still a lot of fun for the girls, you should look into having a ‘Surprise Party’, in other words… Sex Toy Party (parties). In an effort to remain covert, Sex Toy Parties go under many names such as ‘Passion Parties’, ‘Temptations Parties’ and ‘Brown Bag Parties’. Needless to say, these are usually girls only parties for friends (and sometimes relatives) and it is where bachelorettes view Sex Toys. You will need a host to supply the location, usually best in someone’s house or apartment, and some booze… Simple! Oh, and don’t forget the ‘party’ representative with her bag full of goodies.
Don’t be fooled by the topic of the party, not only are various sex toys shown, but the ‘sales person’ will demo the toy as well as show you how to use it, let you know who/what it’s best suited for and answer any questions you may have about it (in private per your request). It may seem embarrassing, but after a few drinks, everyone will loosen up and you will have more chuckles than you can imagine. The fun and off-color jokes won’t stop.
For the members that are more tight-lipped about their sex lives (no pun intended), these parties not only demo various toys for his and her (or just her) pleasure, they also sell various lingerie items, oils or lubes and even perfumes (from what I hear, the pheromones champagne candle is supposed to drive men wild).
Consider having a separate and private room (like a bedroom or the dining room) where people can make their purchases. It is best to keep purchases anonymous, so friends won’t know what you’re buying. And believe me, EVERYONE says that they are just there to watch the presentation and not to buy… but surprisingly, after seeing all the fun stuff that is offered, more guests than you would expect change their mind and end up heading for the private room to make a purchase.
Be prepared for some uninhibited fun for all… during the party and afterwards. And check out our full list of Bachelorette Party Cocktails for your in-home Surprise Party!